Often times I'm at events by myself. Or I'm there early, waiting for the people I'm meeting to show up. These are good opportunities to break the ice with people I don't know. But it can be challenging. First, it's hard to tap the glass around a married or romantically involved couple. An alternative is to join a "quad," but it can be risky because you're at the mercy of their conversation (if the topic is sports, I'll be woefully unprepared).
Hence I try to pinpoint other people out on a limb, flying solo. But even then, the standard "So, what do you do?" gets crusty. At Networking Insight, the author offers ten topics to start a good conversation.
Below are my top 3 that lead to more than just yes or no:
- "That is such a nice shawl/pin/dress you are wearing, where did you get that?"
- "Is this going to be a good party or what?" or "Did you come to this event last year? How was it?"
- The tried and true, "Hi, how are you today?"
Informal conversation is probably the oldest mechanism by which opinions on products and brands are developed, expressed, and spread.
~ Johan Arndt
~ Johan Arndt
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